Hi K, How are you? How's the baby? How do you feel about Mom? I guess it's an experience completely refreshing and different as you may have experienced. As you nod your routine in a few days or weeks, we go to visit J, L and me.
I brought a lot in mind. Touches me a lot when I share all the changes that have taken your life and how you're trying to assimilate them according to your ability.
of parenting in that no instructions or previous training. Trust yourself, your instincts, your sixth sense, your intuition. There is no way you can go wrong. Look, there's something I've learned with my sister. She treats her children and education, as would have liked to see her educated. I can tell you up date has done a splendid job with the girls. Oh, I'm going to give advice to, pus or so. In my humble point of view, although I've never been a parent and most likely not by choice I will, yes I was child. There are three things that I think can never be wrong or left over in our role as parents. They are simple guidelines that can guide your actions private. There you go:
a) No matter what happens, love your daughter and make him feel your unconditional love. Remember that children find their own self-esteem and acceptance in the eyes of adults, especially those of their parents. Love her a lot and she realizes that love, to feel it.
b) Encourages confidence and self-confidence. You feel comfortable with who she is and its capabilities. That can always feel it for herself, without judgments or evaluations. No requirements that must be applied from the class or the best doctor in the world. I get scared when their parents, according to that wide open, saying: "I do not care that my child is sweeper, but yes I ask, that is the BEST Sweeper world" What's wrong, in order to accounts medium or modest performance? I think the most important is that she is happy, and always keep in mind as a supreme value for himself.
c) not in your way to growth. Pretty will you to follow this point. Look for where it is, what their hobbies and their inclinations, and feed them. Like it or not. To develop and unfold their natural inclination where to check it. You already lived your life, and if you'd like to be a ballerina, your daughter does not have to do with it. You might decide to be your thing lumbermen.
Sorry for the tips, but has long (years) wanted to give to someone I felt I could appreciate them in perspective, without considering them intrusive.
There will be time to talk and set up our group for growth. We really need them all. I love you very much and I am happy the birth of V. A big hug to D.
With all my love,
Raul.
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